The weight of family secrets!
The weight of family secrets concerns us all ! In question in particular: this almost universal belief ” Not all truth is good to say or hear“. However, even if a truth is hidden, the child always has the intuition of its history. He will wear it for as long as the lie lasts!
The weight of family secrets: why do we keep silent?
Family secrets are unavoidable. They exist because sometimes the truth is too heavy to reveal, even shameful to assume. So everything went silent. This is how suffering and other repetitive patterns of the past are born, untreated by our ancestors.
The psychogenealogy is clear: our dead are invisible but are very present. They haunt our family trees. This is how many of us found ourselves carrying the weight of our ancestors! These are suitcases that do not belong to us! It is therefore important to step out of their shadow, to free oneself from secrets and things left unsaid.
Can we free ourselves from the weight of family secrets?
We can of course cite unexplained repetitive patterns for example, certain phobias as well or panic disorders. Psychogenealogy therefore proposes to study the family tree to help everyone free themselves. First it will be a question of making an interpretation of the story through the eyes of the consultant. There, we appeal to his personal memories and the links he has with some of his ancestors. Then, the person will do research work, particularly around the precise dates of birth and death. without forgetting to question the living !